If you fail to convince the character, you’ll be told that the two of you just aren’t compatible. The first conversation will have three dialogue checks/pips. This will follow the same mechanics as though you’re recruiting a lord to your faction. You’re told to speak to them in the future, but you can quickly go back to the dialogue once more. Speak to the character, saying you noticed that they haven’t taken a wife or husband yet.

You can court and flirt with as many would-be partners as possible, though you can only choose to marry one.

Check the encyclopedia (N) and sort by kingdom to find a character who suits your fancy.

Likewise, you can’t marry rulers or clan leaders, even those without spouses.

You can only choose unmarried clan members of the opposite sex.

Here are some tidbits if you plan on having your character marry a noble in Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord: Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord – Getting married and having babies For more information, check out our Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord guides and features hub. Note: This guide is intended for Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord‘s early access stage. That’s because it’s possible for your ruler to get married and have kids.

Even though the land of Calradia is ravaged by war in Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord, love still makes the world go round.

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